Do you believe in “Love at
First Sight?”
I do. Let me tell you why.
I’ve had several
people ask me why I have destined
mates in my stories. Some of these same people even scoff at the idea and complain that
real life isn’t like that. I would have to disagree, I think it can be like
that, and here is why.
When I was in college
one of my professors asked me to be a part of the new student government they
were trying to get organized. I agreed and dove in whole-heartedly, writing
by-laws and having elections. Then I was invited to attend the state-wide
student government conference and again, I agreed.
Our college had three
different campuses in three different cities, all about thirty-five miles away
from each other. Each campus had its own student government with members
attending the conference. So to save money, it was decided we would all meet at
the main campus (not mine) and ride up together with our advisor.
A long-time girlfriend
and I drove up together and parked at the main campus. Neither one of us had
been there before and didn’t really know our way around. We decided to head for the office and hoped
someone there would tell us where to meet the rest of our group.
I will never forget
the next few moments for the rest of my life. We had turned down the proper
pathway that ran to the office, when a young man came out of the door and
started walking towards us. His blond curly hair was down to his shoulders and
he was wearing a t-shirt and a pair of ratty jean cut-offs. Seeing him was so
overwhelming, I stopped. I knew from
that first moment that this was the
man I was going to marry.
“Who is that?” I asked my friend.
She replied that he
was the president of the student government on this campus and would be leading
our college group at the conference. My future husband walked up to us and
started directing us to where we would be picking up our bus.
How did I know he was the one? I would say now
that I was guided by the divine. At the time I had no idea why I knew, I just
did.
Was it love at first
sight? No, it was knowing at first
sight.
My husband of over
thirty years is a handsome man, but he isn’t drop-dead gorgeous. It certainly
wasn’t his ratty clothes that drew me. Did I mention he had a goatee? With his
sun lightened blond hair the goatee looked like a ball of lint and did nothing
for him. In fact, it covered up the cute dimple in his chin that I came to love
later on.
Once we were all
loaded onto the bus, I found out how wicked his sense of humor was and still is.
One of the students was an older woman who was near my mother’s age. She was a
member of the student government from the third campus, and I had never met her
before. As we were driving past the farms and pastures full of cows somehow the
fact they had different colors came up.
I sat quietly in my
seat, amazed, while my future husband convinced the woman that white cows have
white meat, dark cows have dark meat, and mixed color cows are for hamburger.
I didn’t know whether
to be angry or laugh. I was taught to treat your elders with respect and
playing this prank on someone who could be my mother was unsettling. On the
other hand, how was it she believed the bunk he was telling her? Believe me, my
husband can be very persuasive.
Did we fall for each other immediately? No, in
fact he decided to make a play for my girlfriend during the conference. She
wasn’t interested, thank goodness,
because she had a boyfriend waiting for her at home.
To say that I had to
go fishing is an understatement. Just getting him to notice me took a while.
But I was determined, because in my heart, I knew he was the one.
Our courtship was
rocky. We lived in different cities and literally had a mountain range between
us. Luckily for me student government business often had us on the phone with
each other. Frequently, after school business was discussed, we would talk and
learn more about each other. I started going to his baseball games and he came
down for our campus’ picnic. Things became more serious when we started going
steady.
At the next year’s
state-wide student government conference, my future husband
proposed. We had fallen head-over-heels in love with each other. The road was
still rocky when my parents didn’t approve and my fiancé decided to join the
Air Force, going in after graduation. But we kept trying and working to be
together.
August 1, 1981 we
were married in a park on the Colorado River in front of our family and
friends. My girlfriend stood up with me as my maid of honor, while our student
government advisor was my fiancé’s best man.
We have been together
through thick and thin ever since. And it all started “at first sight”.
Caryn Moya Block burst onto the paranormal romance scene with her debut e-book “Alpha’s Mate” in January of 2012. Since that time she has published “A Siberian Werewolf in London” and “My Mate’s Embrace.” She was named one of the “Top 50 Indie Authors for April 2012” from E-Reader Reviews, and won the “Global E-book Awards for 2012” in contemporary romance. Caryn is also one of the contributors to "Interviews with Indie Authors, Top Tips from Successful Self-Published Authors" By Claire and Tim Ridgeway.
Caryn loves romantic movies and stories that end "Happily Ever After." She is an avid reader and writer who currently resides in the Virginia Piedmont. Her pack consists of her husband of over thirty years, two grown sons and a beautiful daughter in law, one cat, one turtle, and four Shetland Sheepdogs. She suffers from "Multiple Sheltie Syndrome", because one is never enough. She has been intrigued with the paranormal since seeing her first ghost at three years of age. She would love to hear from you at: CarynMoyaBlock@gmail.com.
Blurb
My Mate’s Embrace
Anton Volkov, Siberian lycanthrope, is
following the scent of Laurel Harris, who is running away from her abusive
stepfather. When Anton finds her, he is surprised to realize she is his mate,
the one woman meant to be his. But the Russian mafia is also on her trail. In
order to rescue Laurel, Anton must first get this troubled woman to trust him.
Can love heal her wounded heart?
My Mate’s Embrace
The
first raindrop hit Laurel in the eye. Within moments, the cloud-filled sky
opened up, and a deluge of water soaked through her T-shirt and jeans. She
shivered as the sky darkened even more, turning the summer evening into
twilight. Wiping her eyes, she continued up the mountain trail to the scenic
river overlook. The trees and wildflowers became a blur as she concentrated on
where to put her feet on the wet path. Laurel glanced down at the Lena River in
the canyon below. It rushed along as the wind picked up, blowing until the
water churned and flew up into the air. Lightening flashed from cloud to cloud,
and there was a large boom. Laurel gasped in fear, feeling shock waves of
thunder roll over her.
She
had to continue with her plan. Her stepfather’s drunken beatings had been
increasing, and she wasn’t able to tolerate staying with him a minute longer.
Then, there were the frightening tattooed men who visited their motel room,
asking to speak to her father. Her skin crawled when she saw them. Something
felt terribly wrong. This was her chance to escape, and she was determined to
be free.
Laurel
tripped and fell to her knees. Rain quickly turned the dirt trail to mud. Her
sneakers kept slipping as she tried to stand, so she grabbed a nearby boulder
to steady herself. If only she hadn’t taken time to use her powers of healing.
Broken ribs, however, would have slowed her down on this climb, and she could
see better without a black eye. But the time she had used to heal her injuries
placed her in this predicament. She needed to find shelter and soon. Her only
hope was to keep going up.
Her
backpack was getting heavier and heavier the longer it rained. The clothes
inside were quickly getting soaked. Adjusting the backpack higher on her back,
she kept climbing. Laurel reached out for a bush along the trail to pull
herself farther up. Lightening flashed, and a loud crack of thunder made her
jump.
Where
was the protector her dead mother’s spirit promised would save her? Coming now
would be a perfect time. Of course, no one would believe that her mother’s
ghost had appeared to talk to her while she did her healings. Laurel wasn’t
sure she believed it. Breathing more
heavily the farther up the mountain she climbed, she forced herself to keep
going.
“Just
one foot in front of the other. You can do it,” Laurel said aloud, trying to
gather her strength of will.
She
had been planning her escape for a week, waiting for this moment, for this day.
She had stuffed her few items of clothing and her mother's silver hairbrush
inside her backpack. Then, she had stolen her passport and a few rubles from
the small black box her stepfather kept them in. As soon as he went out the
door to go drinking, Laurel made good her escape. Luckily, a lot of strangers
were in town for the Siberian Summer Sakha Festival. No one seemed to notice
her as she walked past the various drinking tents and vendors. She kept her head
down and made sure not to make eye contact with anyone. She couldn’t chance
someone recognizing her. The summer sun wouldn’t go down until after eleven
here in Siberia.
Laurel
pushed her sodden auburn hair out of her eyes. Lightening flashed, and she saw
the overlook ahead, a small half-moon shape cut into the side of the mountain.
She put on a burst of speed and hurried the last few feet. Reaching the top,
she stopped to catch her breath. She wrapped her arms around her middle and
held on as she bent over and panted. Looking down at the river, she was
surprised to see how high she had climbed. Wind created white caps on the
river’s surface. Lightening flashed from cloud to cloud around her, and thunder
rolled and cracked. The wind
blew stronger on the ledge, and she shivered harder, her teeth chattering.
She glanced around her. Now what? The gloom from the storm made it hard to see. Laurel
glimpsed a small path going higher into the mountains. Would that lead to the
caves mentioned in the guidebook? She climbed over the rock wall that
surrounded the overlook and started following the small dirt path. While the
other route had been wide enough for several people, this trail was little more
than a deer path. Cold and desperate, she kept climbing.
Twice Laurel tripped, going to her knees
as she slipped in the mud. She grabbed shrubs and boulders near the path to
stop her from plummeting back down the mountain. An abyss of despair overtook
her. Her chest felt heavy, and tears welled up in her eyes. Should she just let
go? The fall down the mountain would kill her before she landed in the river.
Should she end her flight right now? If she did, at least it would be her
choice.
Laurel
shuddered and shook her head, water dripping off her sopping hair. Giving up wasn’t
the answer. She didn’t want to die. Stopping now would lead to going home to be
beaten again. This was her chance to be free, to start a new life. If she could
just be strong enough. Worrying when her stepfather would get angry and hurt
her again had made her so tired.
“Not anymore,” she promised herself. Reaching
up for the next handhold, she kept climbing.
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16 comments:
Thank you, Vintage Vonnie for having me today. I hope those of you reading this post will realize that "Love at First Sight" can happen. It happened to me. Has it happened to any of you?
I believe in love at first sight, too, Caryn. My big brother was my husband's sargeant in the Air Force. He would never bring GIs home, with one exception - him. It was the first year I hadn't gone to our Uncle Bud's birthday bash and it was unfortunate because Bob brought my future husband to the function. A week later I was visiting big brother and family and there was an Air Force picnic. When we arrived I saw this gorgeous piece of manhood standing under an apple tree. The moment I saw him I thought that cannot be the one Bob's been talking about...can it? I decided that very moment he was the one for me. I was so sure that when I put him on a plane for Vietnam four months later, I agreed to wait for his return. We got married in a full church wedding a year later, six days after he returned home. It's been 44 years now, and I know I was right - he was the right one for me.
Best of luck with your book. My new critique partner writes about werewolves so I am totally into the beasts now. :)
What a great story Paisley! I'm glad you listened to that "knowing". :)
It's been over 30 years for me and my husband. But we are still going strong.
Caryn - I loved the story of you meeting your "future husband." And I'm looking forward to reading this book! Off to Amazon.
Thanks, Marlie. I hope you enjoy it.
My Lycans do recognize their mates at first sight. :)
Hi, Caryn,
I laughed at your description of your husband's goatee. Enjoyed your post.
Caryn, I had a similar reaction when I met my husband for the first time. "Knowing" is a great term for that feeling.
Only now got a chance to come by and read your story of how you met your husband... hubby and I were, not quite at first site, we know we must have seen each other at a friends birthday party several years before we actually "met" but we don't remember each other, but we both remember details from the party. I told him it must have been because he had changes to make before I "met" him. :D
A few years later a friend and I were both going to the same college, taking the same courses, and working at the same restaurant. We met a guy that was in one of our classes and worked at the restaurant (he was my husbands best friend). He asked my husband to come and help him decide which one of us, my friend or I, to ask out. My husband came to the restaurant and checked us out from a distance. He choose to approach me. I remember the immediate attraction and the thought "he's mine" going through my head. This was in December, by January we were officially dating, by February we were engaged, and a short time later we were living together and then two September's after we met we were married. We just celebrated the 21st anniversary of our first date. So, no it wasn't love at first site, but I have a feeling we were meant to be together and fate would have keep trying to get us together until we wised up and listened ;D
Thanks Angela,
I guess I should have put it more tactfully. But he looks so much better without the goatee.
Thanks for commenting. :)
Caroline,
I think "knowing" is how it felt. I wasn't "in Love", but I knew he was the one.
That's one of the reasons my characters have that ability to know who is their mate.
Josette,
It does sound like yo and your husband were destined to be. I'm glad it all worked out for you. Thanks so much for sharing your story.
Thanks again to Vintage Vonnie and all my readers. I hope you enjoyed today's post. I am off to dreamland now. So I am wishing you happy thoughts and sweet dreams.
It's been a joy having you. We've been away most of the day. Friday is usually our "date day." We catch a matinee, go for dinner and then have a drink and hold hands. Calvin and I met on match dot com. Two old fogies looking for love online. Can you dig it? He was 70 and I was 54. But when we finally met after emailing and texting for months, we both knew.
Thanks, Vonnie.
Hope you had a great time together.
Goodnight,
Caryn
What fun stories all around! Congratulations on what sounds like a wonderfully fun, romantic story! ;)
Thanks, Misty.
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